Thursday, May 15, 2025

It Was a Sunshine, Clown Nose Day

 

Got my shirt, my sun, and my red nose - let's go!

 

5 Fun Facts I've Discovered About Laughter 

The choice of noses was red or blue - and the group picked whichever they wanted. They didn't know it would denote their "team" - really just a designation to determine who would be first to try a laughter exercise.

They learned the laughter sounds, "Ho Ho Ho, Ha Ha Ha, Hee Hee Hee," and the most important sound: "Whee!" The group not laughing were tasked with keeping eye contact with a laugher, and then the roles were reversed. It was so much fun - and educational to boot! Because laughter is important, necessary, and doesn't have to rely on jokes or comedy.

1. Survival

It all started with primitive humans. Imagine a group of hunter-gatherers meeting another group. Real language hadn't been invented, hand gestures ruled the day. Currently, there are lots of studies around the origin of laughter, and it's purpose. My own, overly simplified story is that primitive humans needed ways to show they were cooperative and non threatening. Vocalization based on forced breath created sounds akin to "ha ha." Nothing was funny - humor would develop many years later. And now, after so many years and so much evolving, we have human laughter that is so powerful, it can bring down dictators or uplift the down-trodden.

2. Diabolical Babies

There is nothing quite so endearing as the sound of a baby laughing. Parents recognize their baby's laughter, even when the pediatrician tells them it isn't really laughter, just probably gas. (Yes, they said that to me!) But recently, FMRIs have proven what parents knew all along. Babies are laughing - apparently for no reason. Or what is REALLY going on? The FMRIs discovered that when someone is laughing with a baby, and especially with eye contact, the brain waves of the adult and the baby start to sync together. Of course, we adults think we are teaching the baby how to laugh, and therefore, their brain is following ours. But here is the diabolical part: it is the BABY who is exerting mind control on the grown-up because their survival is dependent on getting someone to take care of them. Again, parents have probably been suspicious of this for a long time. The FMRIs have proven it!

3. Sense of Humor

Once humans were off and running with the whole language thing, there have been jokes, and puns, and practical jokes. Humans developed a "sense of humor" which is just a way of saying "what I like to laugh at." Over the millennia, this "sense of humor" created some of the first jokes scrawled on walls, many of which, to our ears now, are either not funny, filthy, or political ridicule. The oldest joke found, so far, dates back to 1900 BC, and yes, it was toilet humor. Today, humor is a wide ranging collection of all types of ways to elicit smiles, groans, chuckles, and guffaws.

4. Benefits of Laughter

Here is where laughter plays a huge part in human lives. Laughter releases feel-good hormones to your brain, and it is not just for fun. These hormones build resilience that helps you when life is not funny. Laughter benefits your body physically, and your brain, mentally. What many of us do not know, is that we need to consciously create habits to support our resilience. There is a scientific estimation that for every 3 negative things that happen to you, you need 5 resilience boosting events to recover. This is why sometimes you feel the hits keep coming and you can’t get back on your feet. Studies have also shown that laughter in particular, helps lower blood sugar levels, gives you some aerobic exercise, and decreases pain.

5. Laughter for the Health of It

The concept of laughter that doesn't rely on jokes or comedy is not a new idea. The practice of Laughter Yoga, created by Dr. Madan Kataria, combines the pranayama breathing from yoga, and exercises performed while chanting laughter sounds. This can involve clapping, deep breathing, stretching, and miming daily activities such as mixing a cake. Laughing "for the health of it" has has become an important part of supporting and maintaining resilience.

The Smile Side of Life

Starting with Laughter Yoga, and expanding into other well-being subjects, The Smile Side of Life presents fun and informative ways to use humor, laughter, and other habits that support resilience. For more information, go to www.njlaughter.com

Noreen Braman

Certified Laughter Wellness Instructor - Let's Talk About a Program for Your Employees

Author of: Treading Water – The Pandemic Edition, What Gets You Out of Bed in the Morning?

www.njlaughter.com

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Wednesday, April 30, 2025

NANOPRIMO APRIL 29, 2025 A Tiring Adventure


  

 

A Tiring Adventure

This morning my car greeted me with 

one of those mysterious dashboard icons

    Not the submarine icon

    Not the "left your headlights on" icon

    not even the "better get gas now!" reminder.

It was that squished bubble with exclamation point proclaiming tire trouble

perhaps a pothole, nail, or rock creating an escape of air

a warning to hit the air pump as soon as safely possible.

Three tires were fine, but the last one was 

a pancaked rubber circle, wheel cover almost touching the ground 

    suddenly I was aware

    that in all my years of driving

    I had never had a flat.

Now my dad had made sure that could I change a tire on the side of the road

but the air pump gave me some time to get to tires 'r us

to find out, yes, a nail, but also

dry rot on all four tires.

Low mileage works for some things, but years account for more, as now I sit here 

    writing about how a nail in a tire

    became four new tires

    and a ride down memory lane.

©Noreen Braman

 




Monday, April 28, 2025

NAPOWRIMO April 28, 2025 Last Minute Annie

 


 

Last Minute Annie

someone who leaves things to the very last minute, often the night before a deadline. - Urban Dictionary

She always called me that

when it was usually something she wanted doing

and I needed to be elsewhere.

or

when he laughed and told me

if I had a brain I'd be dangerous

but better be on the honor roll

so

in today's workday world

my pattern is to be ready ahead

as much as is possible

but

others become last minute annies

expecting I'm available 

and compliant

while

inside I hear the laughter

feel the humiliation

and burn with embarrassment and anger. 

©2025 Noreen Braman

 

 

Sunday, April 27, 2025

NAPOWRIMO Emotional Daggers April 27, 2025


Emotional Daggers

I tally the numbers behind me

saddened to see and hear and know

the knife-like words ramping up

the division, the discord, and the destruction

of an admittedly flawed democracy

by haphazardly slashing and burning 

instead of thoughtful retention 

careful plans

not by causing irreparable harm

 that will echo for generations to come. 

©2025 Noreen Braman

 

 

 

 

Friday, April 25, 2025

NAPOWRIMO Moon Madness April 25, 2025

 


Moon Madness

 

This morning the moon and the stars 

played together to make a smile

but today my smile is missing

too much to hear and see

too much to stop my heart

too much of life destruction

too much of frightening changes

too much power in the wrong hands

none of which makes any sense 

tonight I will look to the constancy of the stars

and the fickleness of the moon 

to try an find some balance

in a world that has gone mad.

©2025 Noreen Braman

Tuesday, April 22, 2025

NAPOWRIMO 2025 A Cozy Little Trick: I'm Talking to YOU, Surfshark

 

A Cozy Little Trick

 

A double billing, surely a mistake

so easy to correct

just refund the money to my account

and we'll move forward.

But

they have a cozy little trick

saying you cannot get a refund

within 6 months of a previous refund

no matter that the first refund

was for cancellation of a service

and this request is for double billing

So

I wonder how many more duplicate charges

will now show up on my account

I call you out, Surfshark,

seems so contrary to your 

"protect your computer" business.

Sunday, April 20, 2025

NAPOWRIMO April 20, 2025 My Anxiety Has Anxiety


 

My Anxiety Has Anxiety

 it doesn't have a name or cause

preferring to be free floating

in early mornings an adrenaline shot

palpable physical fear

a wrap-around anxiety hug

that steals sleep's refreshment 

creating difficulty to rise

detouring thoughts and daily plans

all from adrenal glands who won't play nice. 

©2025 Noreen Braman